No, sex isn’t painful for women or for men either. In fact, sex usually feels quite wonderful, provided, of course, that the two partners are considerate of each other’s feelings.
As we’ve explained, the penis gets thicker and wider when it’s erect, and the vagina is a very stretchy, elastic organ and easily expands to accommodate an erect penis. When a man is sexually aroused (‘turned on’), his penis produces a small amount of lubricating fluid. When a woman is sexually aroused, her vagina also produces lubricating fluid. These fluids help the penis slide into the vagina comfortably. In addition, the upper portion of a woman’s vagina also ‘balloons out’, or expands a bit when she’s sexually aroused, so there’s no-discomfort when the penis goes into the vagina.
If, however, a couple try to have sex before the woman is fully aroused and her vagina has begun to lubricate and expand, having sex could be uncomfortable. Trying to force a penis into a dry, unlubricated vagina can, in fact, be painful. Since men sometimes become aroused more quickly than women, it’s important for the couple to make sure that the woman has enough foreplay so she is also ready and well lubricated before the man puts his penis into the vagina. If necessary, a couple can use K-Y Jelly to increase lubrication and make sex more comfortable.
Although sex isn’t usually painful, when a woman has sex for the first time (or for the first several times), she sometimes experiences some discomfort or pain. This may happen for any number of reasons. One reason is that she may be nervous, which makes her tighten her vaginal muscles and decreases the lubrication in her vagina. Another reason is that the couple may be nervous and unsure and may be rushing things, trying to put the penis into the vagina before the woman is lubricated enough. Also, when a woman is a virgin (a person who’s never had is a certain playfulness that can happen when two people are having sex), her vaginal opening or the opening in her hymen may be rather small and tight. If the couple don’t take their time, don’t go slowly and gently, but force things, the hymen or vaginal opening can be painfully stretched or torn. This is why it is important for a couple to begin their sex lives in a relaxed, slow and gentle manner.
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